Dr. Ginny Estupinian, PhD, ABPP is a board-certified clinical psychologist in Los Gatos, California, offering individual therapy for adults navigating marriage uncertainty, active divorce proceedings, high-conflict divorce, gray divorce (divorce after 50), and post-divorce recovery.
She uses evidence-based approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and has over 15 years of clinical experience supporting clients through major life transitions. Sessions are $300 per session; private pay only, insurance is not accepted. HSA and FSA cards are accepted.
In-person appointments are available at 987 University Ave #20, Los Gatos, CA 95032. Telehealth is available for residents of California, Oregon, Illinois, and Florida. To schedule, call 844-802-6512 or book online.
Feeling Stuck in Your Marriage?
You’re Not Alone, and There’s a Way Forward.
You deserve clarity, support, and hope for your future. Whether you’re questioning your marriage, navigating divorce, or ready to build a new chapter, you don’t have to walk this path alone.
Are You Standing At A Crossroads?
I often hear my patients tell me that nightly, they lie awake, consumed by the same thoughts. What was once a joyful, secure marriage now feels like it’s slipping away. The uncertainty weighs heavily on them, leaving them drained and restless. The weight of uncertainty bears down, leaving you exhausted yet unable to rest.
You find yourself wondering: Is this just another rough patch that all marriages face? Or is it something deeper, more fundamental? The thought of divorce simultaneously terrifies and relieves you, and this contradiction only adds to your confusion.
In Quiet Moments, The Questions Multiply
- What if I'm making a mistake?
- How will this affect my children's future?
- Can I Survive Financially on my own?
- What will friends and family think?
- Will I be lonely?
- Can this marriage be saved – and do I want it to be?
All these questions deserve carefully supported exploration with someone who understands the weight of your concerns and the path forward.
You don’t have to face this alone. Whether you’re considering your options, searching for clarity, or needing someone to listen genuinely, I’m here to confidently and efficiently guide you through this crossroads. Let’s chart the path forward together.
Dr. Ginny Estupinian PhD, ABPP is a board-certified clinical psychologist in Los Gatos, CA who provides individual therapy for adults navigating marriage uncertainty, active divorce proceedings, and post-divorce recovery. Using evidence-based approaches including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), she helps clients move from confusion to clarity — and from loss to renewal. Sessions are $300, private pay only, with HSA/FSA accepted. Telehealth is available for clients in California, Oregon, Illinois, and Florida.
You’re not in this alone.
If you need to navigate things…
…weigh your options…
…or just talk…
I’m here to help you tackle this crossroads with confidence
Dr. Ginny Estupinian Ph.D, ABPP
Expert Support For Every Stage of Your Journey
Over the last 15 years as a clinical psychologist, I’ve had the privilege of supporting hundreds of individuals through periods of marital uncertainty. Each person’s journey is unique, and your experience deserves to be heard and understood on its own terms.
As your dedicated professional, I aim to provide you with experienced guidance and a compassionate, nonjudgmental space for exploration. Our sessions offer a confidential environment where you can examine your thoughts, emotions, and hopes for the future. Together, we’ll help you find clarity and develop a path that aligns with your values and well-being.
Your Path To Clarity Starts Here.
We’ll dive deep into your unique situation, uncovering fresh perspectives and insights that truly matter.
Together, we’ll explore every option—whether it’s reconciliation or separation—always keeping your long-term well-being at the heart of the process.
You’ll gain practical tools to handle tough conversations and emotions, giving you the confidence to make decisions with clarity, not confusion.
This is your moment to move forward—stronger, clearer, and in control.
Your journey toward clarity includes:
- Carefully examining the complexities of your unique situation, helping you gain new perspectives and insights.
- Exploring all possible paths forward, including both reconciliation and separation, with a focus on your long-term wellbeing
- Developing practical strategies to navigate difficult conversations and emotions, empowering you to make decisions from a place of clarity rather than confusion
Emotional Support Through Divorce
When facing divorce, particularly one that becomes contentious or protracted, having professional support can make a significant difference in your well-being.
Dr. Estupinian specializes in
helping individuals navigate both amicable and high-conflict divorce situations, using scientifically validated therapeutic approaches to help them maintain stability and develop a healthier perspective during this challenging transition.
While legal teams handle the court proceedings, Dr. Estupinian provides the essential emotional and psychological support needed to weather a bitter divorce process.
Her extensive experience with high-conflict divorces allows her to help you maintain your mental well-being even when facing hostile negotiations, custody battles, or lengthy legal proceedings. Though she doesn’t provide legal advice, her familiarity with divorce proceedings lets her offer an unbiased, grounding perspective when emotions run high and decisions feel overwhelming.
Your Transformative Therapeutic Journey Offers:
- Evidence-based strategies to protect your mental health during lengthy court proceedings, helping you maintain clarity and emotional balance even in highly contentious situations
- Development of healthy coping mechanisms and boundaries, particularly valuable during bitter divorces where interactions with your ex-spouse become challenging
- Professional guidance to help you process your experiences and emotions while working toward a more positive outlook for your future beyond divorce
Deciding to divorce after decades of marriage is no small step, it’s a life-altering choice that comes with its own set of emotional and practical hurdles. Dr. Estupinian, a seasoned psychologist specializing in gray divorce, is here to guide you through this transformative journey.
With expertise in helping adults navigate divorce in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, she offers the focused support you need to take control and move forward with clarity and confidence.
- Untangling financial complexities: From retirement planning to asset division and long-term financial stability, Dr. Estupinian helps you stay emotionally grounded as you work with financial and legal experts to shape your future.
- Managing emotional hurdles: Ending a long-term marriage often impacts relationships with adult children, extended family, and shared social circles. Dr. Estupinian helps you navigate these challenges with care and resilience.
- Redefining Your Next Chapter: Divorce Can Be an Opportunity to Rediscover Yourself. Dr. Estupinian guides you in envisioning a life that aligns with your values, aspirations, and personal growth.
Embracing Your New Chapter
Just as Dr. Estupinian provided professional support through your journey of contemplation and the challenges of divorce proceedings, her expertise remains crucial as you begin crafting your new life. While the legal process may be complete, this phase presents its own unique opportunities and challenges that benefit from experienced therapeutic guidance.
Many clients who have worked with Dr. Estupinian through earlier phases find that continuing support helps them build upon their progress and insights. For those joining at this stage, her comprehensive understanding of the divorce journey provides a valuable perspective for moving forward. Whether you’ve recently finalized your divorce or have been struggling to find your footing afterward, it’s never too late to seek professional support for this important transition.
Dr. Estupinian’s evidence-based approach helps you:
- Process the complete journey you’ve experienced – from your initial questioning of the marriage, through the divorce process, to your current transition – integrating these experiences into a stronger sense of self
- Transform insights gained during the contemplation and divorce phases into practical strategies for building your new life, ensuring past patterns don’t limit your future possibilities
- Create and implement a concrete vision for your future that builds on your resilience and newfound wisdom while opening doors to new opportunities and relationships
A common belief for many is the thinking that once the divorce is finalized, they should be ready to move forward on their own. However, research shows that professional support during this reconstruction phase can be just as vital as during the contemplation and divorce phases. Dr. Estupinian’s expertise helps you build upon the strength you’ve developed, avoid common post-divorce pitfalls, and consciously create a life that reflects your authentic values and aspirations.
Whether you’ve worked with Dr. Estupinian through earlier phases of your journey or are seeking support specifically for this transition, her therapeutic guidance helps ensure that your next chapter isn’t just about recovering from divorce – it’s about thriving in your newfound freedom and creating a fulfilling life that might not have seemed possible before
Many people believe they’ll be ready to move on solo once the divorce ends.
But here’s the truth:
Getting professional support after the paperwork is signed can be as important as having it during decision-making and divorce.
Don’t overlook this crucial phase.
Dr. Ginny Estupinian Ph.D. ABPP
With over 15 years of experience and a genuine passion for helping others, I’m here to provide mental health care that fits you.
Let’s work together to create a brighter, healthier future tailored just for you.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is divorce therapy?
Divorce therapy is individual psychotherapy specifically focused on helping adults navigate the emotional, psychological, and practical challenges of marriage uncertainty, separation, and divorce. Unlike marriage counseling, which involves both partners working together, divorce therapy focuses on one person helping them gain clarity about their situation, process difficult emotions, build coping skills, and plan for the future. Dr. Estupinian provides individual divorce therapy in Los Gatos, California, with telehealth available across California, Oregon, Illinois, and Florida.
What is the difference between divorce therapy and marriage counseling?
Divorce therapy and marriage counseling are two distinct services. Marriage counseling involves both partners meeting together with a therapist to work on the relationship, with the goal of improving communication, resolving conflict, or deciding whether to stay together. Divorce therapy is individual therapy focused on one person only. Dr. Estupinian works exclusively with individuals, not couples. Her focus is on helping you process your emotions, gain clarity about your options, and develop the tools to move forward, whether that ultimately means reconciliation, separation, or rebuilding after divorce. If marriage counseling is appropriate for your situation, Dr. Estupinian will recommend it.
Do I have to already be going through a divorce to seek therapy?
No. Many clients come to Dr. Estupinian long before any decision has been made. If you are questioning your marriage, feeling stuck, or simply need a confidential space to think through your options, therapy can help. Dr. Estupinian supports clients at every stage, from early uncertainty and contemplation through active divorce proceedings and into post-divorce recovery. You do not need to have made any decisions to begin.
Is divorce therapy only for women?
No. Dr. Estupinian works with both men and women navigating marriage uncertainty and divorce. Men often face their own distinct challenges during this process, including social pressure to appear unaffected, concerns about custody and financial stability, and difficulty finding spaces to process grief openly. Dr. Estupinian provides a nonjudgmental environment for all adults regardless of gender.
What therapeutic approaches does Dr. Estupinian use for divorce therapy?
Dr. Estupinian uses evidence-based therapeutic approaches tailored to each client’s specific needs. Her primary framework is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which helps clients identify unhelpful thought patterns and develop healthier ways of thinking and responding during a highly stressful transition. She also integrates other clinically validated techniques as appropriate, including strategies for managing anxiety, sleep disruption, depression, and grief, all of which commonly arise during divorce proceedings.
What is gray divorce, and does Dr. Estupinian specialize in it?
Gray divorce refers to divorce among adults in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, a demographic that has grown significantly in recent decades as life expectancies have extended and social norms around later-life fulfillment have shifted. Gray divorce carries its own unique challenges: longer shared histories, greater financial complexity (retirement accounts, asset division, Social Security considerations), shifts in relationships with adult children and shared social networks, and the process of redefining identity after decades of marriage. Dr. Estupinian has specialized expertise in gray divorce and provides focused support for adults navigating this transition, helping clients move forward with clarity and a renewed sense of purpose.
Can therapy help during a high-conflict or contentious divorce?
Yes. High-conflict divorces involving hostile negotiations, contested custody, or prolonged legal proceedings place extreme psychological strain on everyone involved. Dr. Estupinian has extensive experience supporting individuals through bitter divorce processes. While she does not provide legal advice, she helps clients maintain emotional stability, develop healthy boundaries, and make decisions from a place of clarity rather than reactivity, even when circumstances are intensely stressful. Having professional psychological support running alongside your legal process can make a significant difference in your mental health and long-term outcomes.
Can divorce therapy help with custody stress and co-parenting challenges?
Yes. Custody disputes and co-parenting conflicts are among the most emotionally exhausting aspects of divorce, particularly when the relationship with a former spouse is hostile or communication has broken down. Dr. Estupinian helps clients develop the emotional regulation skills, communication strategies, and coping tools needed to navigate custody stress and parent effectively, even in difficult circumstances. She works with clients on managing anxiety and emotional reactivity so that their children’s well-being remains central even during conflict.
What if I change my mind about divorce multiple times during therapy?
That is completely normal, and it is exactly what this therapy is designed for. Ambivalence is one of the most common experiences people bring to divorce therapy. The decision can feel right one week and terrifying the next. Dr. Estupinian’s role is not to push you toward any particular outcome. She provides a stable, nonjudgmental space where you can explore your options thoroughly, at your own pace, and arrive at a decision that genuinely reflects your values and long-term wellbeing.
How long does divorce therapy typically last?
The length of therapy varies based on your individual goals and circumstances. Dr. Estupinian provides a clear plan at the first session and updates it regularly as your needs evolve. Some clients benefit from a focused, short-term engagement during a specific phase, such as the immediate aftermath of separation or a particularly contentious court period. Others choose to continue through multiple phases of the divorce process and into post-divorce recovery. There is no long-term commitment required, and you are always the decision-maker about the pace and duration of your care.
What if I also struggle with sleep, anxiety, depression, or other issues during my divorce?
You are fully covered. Divorce is one of the most stressful life events a person can experience, and it frequently triggers or worsens anxiety, depression, insomnia, and other mental health concerns. Dr. Estupinian is a board-certified clinical psychologist with broad expertise across these areas. She treats the whole person, meaning if you are struggling with sleep disruption, panic symptoms, or depressive episodes alongside your divorce, she integrates treatment for those issues directly into your care rather than addressing them separately.
Does Dr. Estupinian offer online divorce therapy?
Yes. Dr. Estupinian offers secure telehealth sessions for clients who prefer to meet remotely or who live outside the Los Gatos area. Online divorce therapy is available to residents of California, Oregon, Illinois, and Florida. Sessions are conducted via a private, HIPAA-compliant video platform and are held at the same $300 rate as in-person appointments. HSA and FSA cards are accepted for telehealth sessions.
How much does divorce therapy cost in Los Gatos?
Sessions with Dr. Estupinian are $300 per session. The practice is private pay-only. Insurance is not accepted, and there is no sliding scale. HSA and FSA cards are accepted. For clients outside the Los Gatos area, telehealth sessions are available at the same rate for residents of California, Oregon, Illinois, and Florida.
What is the difference between a psychologist and a divorce coach?
A divorce coach is typically a non-clinical professional who offers guidance and practical strategies for navigating the divorce process. They are not licensed mental health professionals and cannot diagnose or treat psychological conditions. Dr. Estupinian is a licensed clinical psychologist with a doctorate in clinical psychology and board certification through the American Board of Professional Psychology (ABPP). This means she can assess and treat anxiety, depression, trauma, and other mental health conditions that arise during divorce, not just offer practical guidance. If you are experiencing significant psychological distress, working with a licensed psychologist provides a level of clinical care that a divorce coach cannot offer.
What does Dr. Estupinian’s board certification (ABPP) mean for me as a patient?
Board certification through the American Board of Professional Psychology (ABPP) is the highest voluntary credential available to licensed psychologists. Fewer than 5% of licensed psychologists in the United States hold ABPP board certification. Earning it requires peer review of clinical work, demonstrated expertise, and a rigorous examination process beyond what standard licensure requires. When you work with Dr. Estupinian, you are working with a clinician whose competence has been independently verified at a national level, not just by a licensing board, but by the field’s most respected credentialing body.
Is divorce therapy in Los Gatos available to people in other parts of the Bay Area?
Yes. While Dr. Estupinian’s office is in Los Gatos, Santa Clara County, she serves clients throughout the San Francisco Bay Area and Silicon Valley via telehealth. California residents, including those in the South Bay, Peninsula, East Bay, and San Francisco, can access her services remotely. In-person appointments are available at 987 University Ave #20, Los Gatos, CA 95032.
How do I get started with divorce therapy?
To begin, call Dr. Estupinian’s office at 844-802-6512 or use the online booking link at ginnyestupinian.com/appointments. At your first session, Dr. Estupinian will assess your situation, discuss your goals, and provide a clear treatment plan. There is no long-term commitment required to begin, and your first session is fully confidential.
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Serving Los Gatos, Silicon Valley, and the Greater Bay Area
Dr. Estupinian’s office is located in Los Gatos, California — in the heart of Silicon Valley in Santa Clara County — and is easily accessible to clients throughout the South Bay, including San Jose, Saratoga, Campbell, and Monte Sereno. For clients throughout the San Francisco Bay Area, the East Bay, the Peninsula, and beyond, telehealth sessions are available for California residents statewide. Dr. Estupinian also serves clients remotely in Oregon, Illinois, and Florida.
In-person office: 987 University Ave #20, Los Gatos, CA 95032 Phone: 844-802-6512 Telehealth available: California · Oregon · Illinois · Florida